Planning Ahead for Mom and Dad: Why the Holidays Are the Best Time to Explore Assisted Living Options

The holidays are one of the few times families truly slow down, gather together, and share a meal. Between the laughter, old stories, and second servings of dessert, many adult children begin to notice subtle changes in their parents’ health, mobility, or memory.

At Psalm 23 Home Care, we know those moments can bring both warmth and concern. The holidays are not just a time for reflection they’re also the perfect opportunity to start planning for the future.

Why the Holidays Are Ideal for Planning Assisted Living

• Everyone is together. It’s much easier to discuss care plans when siblings and family members can talk face-to-face.

• You can observe real changes. Seeing your loved one in person often reveals things that phone calls can’t like physical changes, signs of forgetfulness, or reduced mobility.

• New Year, new peace of mind. Starting the search now gives your family time to prepare for a smooth transition in the coming year.

Staying Connected — Even If You Can’t Be There in Person

We understand that not every family can travel home for the holidays. That’s why Psalm 23 Home Care provides a community iPad for our residents to enjoy FaceTime calls and virtual visits with their loved ones.

Whether you’re across town or across the country, these calls allow families to stay connected, check in on Mom or Dad, and share special holiday moments. Even a short video call can bring comfort, laughter, and reassurance keeping families close no matter the distance.

If you can’t visit in person this season, schedule a FaceTime visit with your loved one through our care team. We’ll make sure the connection is clear and the smiles are even brighter.

How to Start the Conversation with Your Parents

Talking about assisted living doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. Try these gentle approaches:

• Lead with love. Begin the conversation by expressing your care and concern for their comfort.

• Share what you’ve noticed. Use kind language like, “I’ve noticed you’ve been tired lately — how can we make things easier?”

• Explore options together. Invite them to take part in visiting or virtually touring nearby communities.

At Psalm 23 Home Care, we encourage families to see assisted living not as a loss of independence, but as a gain in quality of life. Our residents enjoy nutritious meals, personal support, social activities, and the peace of mind that comes from 24-hour care.

A Gift of Comfort and Security

Starting these conversations during the holidays allows families to make decisions with calm hearts, not in crisis. It’s one of the most loving gifts you can give the gift of security, safety, and peace for your parents.

If you’re spending the holidays thinking about next steps, let Psalm 23 Home Care guide you through your options. Schedule a visit or FaceTime tour to experience how care, compassion, and community come together under one roof.